My Aweful First Impression

A story happened in my freshmen year in Liaoning University, China. After the whole year, one of my close girl friends told me I got a holy bad first impression to all of her roommates (four of them), a PLAYBOY image. I never ever think myself in that way but it just happened in my real world. Maybe that was because I usually dress up a little bit, making myself charming, and flirt with some colse girlfriends. Nevertheless, I feel myself not like that and try other ways to portray myself as a reliable,responsible and mature man. For example, I don't flirt any more or speak that much. Now I usually stay quiet and perform really "cool" and that works! My friends told me that I impressed them really a cool man firstly. Although I feel myself reliable and responsible, despite I am not mature enough, which depends on my age, 21. A big boy with not much experience could not have the quality of thinking and behaving in a sensible, adult manner. Anyway, I would say myself 85% successful by impressing others, especially in "the first minutes" as Dr. Leonard Zunin said in his book Contact: The First Four Minutes. Because I'm confident and I feel the image that I give to my friends is 85% alike to the real personality of myself. I know it's not exactly the same but I'm still satisfied because I need to save some space for my close friends to "explore". LOL